Many inventions, novels, and businesses have been birthed from someone asking, “What if…?” Recently I asked myself questions about what would happen if I tried out some new behaviors, what if… I can tell already the questions are going to lead to more healing and character growth.
I’m wondering how much my relationships might improve if I stopped making excuses for people when they behave poorly. What if I didn’t “rescue them” (in order to save myself from feeling angry or hurt)? I thought I had gotten rid of all codependent thinking years ago, but this behavior still crops up.
Just asking the questions has me motivated to do some more learning and growing. How about you?
Just asking the questions has me motivated to do some more learning and growing. How about you?Do you also have self-protection behaviors you want to explore? “What if…?” is a great tool to get you started.